If you are looking for more than inspiration - and want to know how to lead your life, business or career to create measurable, miraculous results you will find practical guided exercises to show you how in Learning to Believe the Unbelievable - Living Life as a Miracle Leader.
This is our mission, helping people become a Miracle Leader - Leadership is the willingness and ability to influence others and situations in a positive way.
Great leaders give. We give all the time. We look for places to give. We are not shy about being taken advantage of, because giving has a result to it. We are not looking for someone to notice our giving and even if they won’t, we give anyway. We do it because it is endemic to our nature. Sometimes you get tired. You get tired because you think you have given all there is to give. Most of us have way more to give than we think. The more we extend ourselves, the more energy comes back around. There is a natural flow to the order of giving. As a leader, all of us have way more energy to give than we think we do. Leadership is not stingy. It is steeped in generosity. This is why I coach people to find something they love to do. The more you love what you do each day, the more you will want to share yourself with your team and the people you love in your life. You will not be keeping track of how you serve others, because keeping track detracts from the service itself.
Sometimes we fall prey to becoming lazy leaders. We think we have been betrayed and we stop sharing our enthusiasm with others, as if we will find redemption in our own withholding. Holding back stinks! It backs up on you. It keeps you stuck in a rut of blame and resentment. If you want out of the jail of self deception, then I invite you to find someone or something to give everything you can to. Find a project at work or at home and give until it hurts. I recommend putting so much inspiration and enthusiasm into this project that you reach a point where you don’t think you can give anymore. Don’t look to be noticed. Look to see how you experience yourself. You will fill up. If you’ll trust me on this, you will see that the dam of “getting” becomes unblocked by your “giving:” Do not look for remuneration as that steals away the giving nature of the leader. I can’t tell you how many people I know that are stuck right now. I know the feeling, as I have been steeped in stuck many times in my life. How do you get unstuck? Give to someone that is more stuck than you. Listen to them. Assist them. Serve those people and see what happens to your own way of being. You will be lifted and come clear into your own life. Do it until it hurts.
It’s like lifting weights. It hurts good. It takes a real man to do this, even if you’re a woman; it requires manning up. Many of us are soft of giving. There is a shift at hand in our world. There is an opportunity to break away from the divisive roles of spiritual, family, corporate and political division. The access to collaboration is through our giving. It’s in the sharing of ideas, even if those ideas differ. We don’t need to agree in our giving; and as “shared” leaders we can align. What do you as a leader get from all of this? You get yourself back. You get the truth of your existence and the inspiration of a moment that has you unveil yet another moment and on we go. It builds a momentum that is beyond compare. What will you give OF yourself this week? Lead on.
